Saturday, October 25, 2008

Just take a minute to think

ok so i know that there will be at least one person that reads this and freaks out about it. So i just want to say to those people that some of this could be pointed at you but dont flatter yourself...not everything is about you. but its going to sound way worse and way more dramatic than i mean it. But my whole point is to tell it like it is and be real so dont read too much into this.

Being left out of someones life or cut out of someones life sucks....but whats worse is to see the person that is filling that place...your place. That hurts more than anything. So dont blow off your good friends for those who you want to become better friends with. Its not worth it. Im not saying you should have those select people that you should spend all of your time with and never try to make new or better friends. Im just saying make sure you know who is always there for you...think back to all of the things you have been through...who has always been there....who is always there now no matter what. Who would you be lost without. just take a minute to think about it. think about how you would feel if your best friend made you feel unimportant...or blew you off all the time. trust me i know...it hurts. so all im saying is think next time when a good friend sounds or looks like they need help...find a way to help them out...even if its just talking to them ...put that first, before everything else. For once in your life dont be selfish. Just take some time to really think about it ok? Think about what really matters....what is truely important at this point. Just think about it ....plain and simple

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Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky his is to have you.... The one who turns to his friends and says, 'that's her'.

I don't pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing everything about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is when you are talking on the phone with them or even laying next to them and somehow you are still missing them because they are just not close enough, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting butterflies in ur stomach when they walk into a room and smile at you.

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